{"id":13937,"date":"2024-04-30T07:00:00","date_gmt":"2024-04-30T05:00:00","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/jochemkoole.nl\/?p=13937"},"modified":"2025-04-24T20:09:53","modified_gmt":"2025-04-24T18:09:53","slug":"be-more-confident-and-more-convincing","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/jochemkoole.nl\/en\/blog\/be-more-confident-and-more-convincing\/","title":{"rendered":"Be more confident and more convincing"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p>&#8220;To sell is human,&#8221; says Daniel Pink.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>In&nbsp;<a target=\"_blank\" href=\"https:\/\/www.amazon.nl\/-\/en\/Daniel-H-Pink\/dp\/1594631905\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">his 2013 book with the same title<\/a>&nbsp;Pink describes how all of us are constantly &#8216;selling&#8217;. As we are continuously trying to convince others to do what we would like them to do.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>In a business context, I believe sales is all about removing barriers to buy.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>We&#8217;re trying to convince potential clients that their return will be bigger than their investment. That the chances of them gaining something are bigger than the risks of them losing something.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Now, in order to convince others you need to be&#8230; convincing.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>This can be hard, as our limiting beliefs sometimes prevent us to be convinced of ourselves.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>We then start thinking things like &#8220;I can&#8217;t do this.&#8221; Or &#8220;I&#8217;m not good enough.&#8221; Or &#8220;Why would anyone care (about me and my services).&#8221;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>And, when we doubt ourselves, it is much harder to convince others. 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